Extreme obesity

Feeling alone at your size

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KarlFA   United Kingdom
Joined 13 years
shazzy wrote:
I do know some amazing people just sadly they are quite away, away and sadly cash always comes into not being able to see people.
My husband makes me very happy, but he isn't the same as hanging out with a group of friends and having a laugh.
I just find sometimes that I feel very alone, not because he isn't here or doesn't spend time with me, but more he doesn't understand and isn't near my size. But also we have complete different interests.
I guess it makes one of the reasons why I would like to be slightly slimmer just so life would be so much easier.


We all have to choose what route to take in life,sadly I chose the wrong one,taking that into account in addition to other issues I have has really ruined the last couple of years for me,I hope outside influences don't push you one way or another,you are a lovely young lady,and I wish you well
13 years

Feeling alone at your size

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Johnxyz   United States
Joined 18 years
ReadTheWind wrote:
I can sort of relate. I'm tiny at only 100lbs, but I go to a school where's there's only a few overweight people. I sometimes see this one guy who is quite large and I really want to talk to him and be his friend. I'm too shy though. He's always alone... Where I live it's unacceptable to be overweight. I live in a beach/party culture community where if you're not at the gym for at least 6 hours a day, then you're a nobody and far from attractive. I feel really upset that I can't find any large people here to befriend and cuddle up to. I just want to find people like you guys and hang out. You'd get so many compliments (and cookies) from me all the time!

Me: I'm not worrrrrthy of your goddess-like presence!

Imaginary large friends: Char, shut up you're embarrassing us!

Me: But you're soooo amaaaazing!


I would go for it anyway. Just say hi, and see where it goes. He is probably shy too.
13 years

Feeling alone at your size

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Maximum   Australia
Joined 16 years
johnxyz wrote:
ReadTheWind wrote:
I can sort of relate. I'm tiny at only 100lbs, but I go to a school where's there's only a few overweight people. I sometimes see this one guy who is quite large and I really want to talk to him and be his friend. I'm too shy though. He's always alone... Where I live it's unacceptable to be overweight. I live in a beach/party culture community where if you're not at the gym for at least 6 hours a day, then you're a nobody and far from attractive. I feel really upset that I can't find any large people here to befriend and cuddle up to. I just want to find people like you guys and hang out. You'd get so many compliments (and cookies) from me all the time!

Me: I'm not worrrrrthy of your goddess-like presence!

Imaginary large friends: Char, shut up you're embarrassing us!

Me: But you're soooo amaaaazing!


I would go for it anyway. Just say hi, and see where it goes. He is probably shy too.


Seriously, just go for it, even if nothing comes of it, you could totally make his day, hell even his life. Women have no idea how much impact just saying "hi" can have on a guy.
13 years

Feeling alone at your size

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Toor Pekk   Estonia
Joined 14 years
Yeah, there are sometimes lonely moments. Majority of people hate their extra pounds here and they assume that everybody does so. Very few bigger persons are visible in streets, but there are still nowadays enough that I am now able to buy clothes local special shop not to travel abroad for every item. Or simply our businesspersons have found this sector of consumers. However I am happy and according certain questionarie I fullfilled couple of years ago are 98% of people in planet Earth smaller than I am. smiley
13 years