Extreme obesity

That really saddens me that a lady who has recently married and is a wonderful ssbbw feels like you do. Especially that you have been so positive in the UK size acceptance movement. I personally think you deserve better for what you have achieved. Let me reassure you that you are not alone. I have personally been in the community as what some would class as a lurker since the mid 90s as a fa and feeder. The people i know and trust [ especially one couple ] are now extremely private about there chosen lifestyle and no references can currently be found on the internet]. Unfortunately being a lady of size is not socially acceptable along with smokers heavily tattooed people or anyone that does not fit into what society says is normal. Let me state again you are not alone but in a minority where everyone is judged by appearance and belief. You are a wonderful lady and my only advice is to be yourself and true friends will see past what they do not understand.

We all have to choose what route to take in life,sadly I chose the wrong one,taking that into account in addition to other issues I have has really ruined the last couple of years for me,I hope outside influences don't push you one way or another,you are a lovely young lady,and I wish you well

I would go for it anyway. Just say hi, and see where it goes. He is probably shy too.

Seriously, just go for it, even if nothing comes of it, you could totally make his day, hell even his life. Women have no idea how much impact just saying "hi" can have on a guy.

Yeah, there are sometimes lonely moments. Majority of people hate their extra pounds here and they assume that everybody does so. Very few bigger persons are visible in streets, but there are still nowadays enough that I am now able to buy clothes local special shop not to travel abroad for every item. Or simply our businesspersons have found this sector of consumers. However I am happy and according certain questionarie I fullfilled couple of years ago are 98% of people in planet Earth smaller than I am.

I know it too. I'm live in france too and I am the fattest in my family and friends. I would like encounting another person who are as fat as me or fatter to talk about day's difficulties we can have when we walk, for clothes ....

I think it would be grate to have some kind of resort for big peoples hollidays. Where at least once a year ore so you could meet people of your size you maybe know from the internet or in person, but are not able to see on a regular basis.
I know there is someting like it allready, but one may not be enaugh....
(btw i know this is not "the solution" to your problems but just a thought of me.


sry if my english isnt too good.

what do you think?

one other thing i want to mention is that (and i dont want to sound harsh on this) many of us have this feeling alone problem, even if not allways because of weight, but just because of beeing wo we are...